We’ve all been there…lying in bed with a significant(ish) other, thinking that could have gone a lot, no I mean a lot, better. Inevitably questions arise; “should I have done something differently”, “my ex used to love me doing it like that, or maybe they didn’t”. “Something needs to change and I need to do some serious homework”.
Having sex is something that can be done very badly, hence why it’s so important to develop a move/series of moves that you can guarantee will end in satisfaction for all parties involved. Asides from climatic conquerization, let’s explore other reasons as to why having a signature move is important.
Boost Your Confidence
First and foremost having a signature sex move will fill you with confidence in the bedroom. Say the night’s going well, but you really want to put it into 5th gear and impress the person who’s chosen to spend an intimate session with you. Initiating your move, like a proud captain leading his troops into battle, will definitely give them the impression that you’re both confident in the sheets as well as on the streets. Confidence is an invaluable asset when getting to know someone in the bedroom, therefore busting out your moves will inevitably go down well.
Something To Remember You By
With the average number of sexual partners between 4-10, it’s probably quite easy for some eager beavers to forget some of their less ‘spectacular’ sexual conquests.
Realistically, nobody wants to be the one person, who when asked your former sexual partner says ‘who’, because you laid there like a corpse or flapped around like an excitable fish (unless you’re into that…not judging…). Developing a signature sex move will make you stand out, 100%. Granted it may not be for the right reasons if your move fails, however it’s far better to be remembered than being beige, right?
Intrinsically linked with being remembered, is reputation. We’re not suggesting that you’ll walk down the street and people will shoot looks at you like your the new Hugh Hefner, or Marilyn Monroe, but news does travel particularly quickly in these days of social media. Say you make a good impression on one of your past sexual partners, they may tell one of their friends who tells five of their friends, who then tells another ten. Next thing you know, news of your good form has spread into 2 counties, 3 cities and 4 groups of friends, leading to a renewed interest from new potential lovers.
Try Out More New Things
Arguably, the best thing about settling on a signature sex move will be that it may act as a catalyst for bigger and brighter things. If your move strays on the side of ‘‘adventurous”, and it’s well received, it’s highly likely your partner will be prepared to try new sex positions, and other ‘add-on’s’ that will continue to keep your sex sensual and exciting. Exploring the use of toys and food into the bedroom is said to result in better orgasms for both men and women. So why not let your signature move, start you off on your sexual journey.
Author: Kyle Sowden from Men’s Pharmacy